Monday, November 20, 2023

 LEARNING DAILY

James 4:13-14, Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit”; whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.

I will discuss the weekend’s message in the next page of the blog. Let me tell you that there was some sadness in our family over the weekend. Our daughter’s family needed to put down their part Lab, part Great Dane, 100+ pound dog. He was gentle and the peacemaker around the house. Anyone who has had a pet for very long understands just how attached we become to them. Then the time comes when a very difficult decision needs to be made.

That same day, my wife and I attended a Seniors Luncheon at church. It was our first and might be my last! The “program” consisted of listening to seven or eight people tell us about programs to help us grow older in an easier way. Of course, the last one to speak represented a funeral home. That seemed fitting after listening to those who would provide home care assistance, financial instruction, legal help so everyone would get what we wanted them to have, and help for us or family members when dementia set in. When they were done, I leaned over to the guy sitting beside me at the table and mentioned it was interesting to realize how fast the years had passed. He either did not hear me or did not know how to reply.

The luncheon plus the dog being put down made me stop and reflect a little. James writes that not one of us knows what tomorrow will bring. Yes, we plan for tomorrow but do not so in an attitude of self-reliance. I believe he suggests we plan with humility and without an attitude of self-confidence. James has been writing previously about following the thought process in the world rather than planning according to the wisdom of God. He writes about a person who is making plans and then vowing about keeping them, doing so with his own power and ability. That is not what God desires in those who follow Him! Following the ways of the world too often involves an attitude of success at any cost and selfish ambition.

James writes that those who believe this way are arrogant in believing we are the masters of our own destiny. We want to think that we can do whatever we want if we put our minds to it. The problem with this thinking is that none of us can predict what the future holds. There are many who are telling us “this or that” is going to happen so we better do this in order to be successful. But our lives are fragile, “a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away”; here for a moment and then gone. James is not being pessimistic or wanting to discourage us; he is writing about planning without God’s influence. His point is to be aware that every moment of our lives is dependent on God’s will, His mercy and grace.

Take the time to embrace your spouse, son, daughter, grandchildren and friends. Hug them and tell them you love them because no one knows when God will call them home. Consider the really important things in life and do not let a moment go by where you don’t make your love known.  Time passes too quickly.

For a dog named Riddick, he will be missed but will live in our memories!

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